Train Versus Rollercoaster
In a good friendship you cannot be the only one adjusting your pace.
The goal in friendship is much like the goal in tennis. 🎾
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Every pairing between two people creates a new pace. This is why friendships give us something we cannot produce by ourselves.
Welcome to Three Beautiful Things, my once a month round-up. Catch up on what you missed! Be sure to read to the bottom for my special offer in March.
When we enrolled our son in preschool, the teacher used to announce new people with “Look, a new friend.”
A friend is a companion, a word that comes from the French meaning with-bread (com = with, pain = bread).
For February, I want to unpack what a friend really means. Let’s start with a beautiful metaphor. Friends are like balloons, hot air balloons. They light up our sky. This brilliance is only possible because behind the incredible show of light and color, someone worked very hard on this balloon. Read more on this balloon metaphor …
The space we give our friends is part of how we enjoy friendship. In this painting of me and my son, it’s the distance between us that makes room for this huge palm tree shadow. Because we are further apart, I could see the shadow. If my son and I were in a three-legged race, I …
We all know about sorting laundry. I like to make a pile of all the socks, then find their matches. Friends are the pair to our lone sock. We match each other. And once we know how we pair off with our friend, we can connect in the places that are natural and enjoyable. Because …
Fountains distract me in the best of ways. I know they’re ancient inventions, just water in motion, but there’s such a soothing playfulness in fountains. They invite me to wait and watch. The movement and sound of those splashes, the lure to reach for a few coins at the bottom, the energy of water shot …